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Support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse,
victims of domestic violence, rape and sexual assault
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These issues are real and the facts speak for themselves.  

For those of us who ever experienced any form of abuse, the
ramifications are something that remain and effect us forever, if we let
them.  Being a "victim" of abuse, in any form, has such a disempowering
effect on us as a whole and it's time NOW, that we Take a Stand for
Ourselves, Our Children and Society as a whole!


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Domestic Violence is a Serious, Widespread Social Problem in
America:
The Facts Prevalence of Domestic Violence

Estimates range from 960,000 incidents of violence against a current or former spouse,
boyfriend, or girlfriend per year to three million women who are physically abused by their
husband or boyfriend per year.

Nearly one-third of American women (31 percent) report being physically or sexually
abused by a husband or boyfriend at some point in their lives, according to a 1998
Commonwealth Fund survey.

Nearly 25 percent of American women report being raped and/or physically assaulted by a
current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or date at some time in their lifetime,
according to the National Violence Against Women Survey, conducted from November
1995 to May 1996.

Approximately one in five female high school students reports being physically and/or
sexually abused by a dating partner.

Three in four women (76 percent) who reported they had been raped and/or physically
assaulted since age 18 said that a current or former husband, cohabiting partner, or date
committed the assault.
One in five (21 percent) women reported she had been raped or physically or sexually
assaulted in her lifetime.

www.endabuse.org/resources/facts/


Warning Signs of Child Molestation

Below are some of the most common signs of child molestation:

  • Changes in behavior such as withdrawal, fearfulness, crying without
    provocation.
  • Change in eating habits.
  • Disrupted sleep patterns, fear of the dark or nightmares.
  • Regression to more infantile behavior such as bedwetting, sucking their
    thumbs, or abnormal and excessive crying.
  • Bruises, rashes, cuts, limping, or poorly explained injuries
  • Vaginal or rectal bleeding, pain, itching, swollen genitals, vaginal discharge,
    or sexually transmitted diseases.
  • Stained or torn underwear.
  • Unusual interest in or knowledge of sexually related matters or expression of
    affection in ways inappropriate for a child of that age.
  • Fear of a person or an intense dislike at being left somewhere or with
    someone (relatives, babysitters, etc)
  • Other behavioral signals such as aggressive or disruptive behavior, running
    away, failing in school.
  • If a child tells you that they have been sexually abused in any way, believe
    them. Children rarely lie about sexual abuse. 80% of all child molestation
    cases involve someone the child knows. Additionally, it’s especially important
    to be supportive of the child. Children have an enormous fear that they are the
    one to blame in this situation and it’s important that they realize it is not their
    fault. Alleviating this self-blame is extremely important.

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For those of us who ever experienced any form of abuse, we know they
are real and will effect us forever, if we let them.  The effects show up in
our Low Self-Esteem and Lack of Self-Confidence, Our inability to have
a Happy, Healthy, Loving Relationship, etc.  Being a "victim" of abuse,
in any form, has such a dis-empowering effect on us as a whole.

It's time NOW, that we Take a Stand for Ourselves,
Our Children and Society as a whole!


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dance into a Sacred Relationship with another.

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or
if this is an emergency situation
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 Symptoms: Indicators of Abusive Relationships

Using Emotional Abuse
  • ·        Putting you down
  • ·        Making you feel bad about yourself
  • ·        Calling you names
  • ·        Implying that you are crazy
  • ·        Playing mind games
  • ·        Using guilt as a weapon of control
  • ·        Using humiliation

Using Privilege
  • ·        Treating you like a servant
  • ·        Making all decisions for the family or couple
  • ·        Acting like an owner or master
  • ·        Being the one to define and enforce roles
  • ·        Expecting you to obey like a child

Using Coercion and Threats
  • ·        Making or carrying out threats
  • ·        Threatening to leave
  • ·        Threating to harm themself if you leave
  • ·        Threatening to hurt other family members or pets if you leave
  • ·        Threatening to report you to police, child welfare, etc. to control you
  • ·        Threatening to file false charges against you
  • ·        Using threats to get you to drop charges
  • ·        Threatening to expose a secret

Using Intimidation
  • ·        Making you afraid - looks, gestures, actions
  • ·        Smashing things
  • ·        Abusing pets
  • ·        Displaying weapons
  • ·        Threatening to expose a secret

Using the Children
  • ·        Using the children to relay messages
  • ·        Using visitation to harass you
  • ·        Threatening to take the children
  • ·        Threatening to harm the children

Using Isolation
  • ·        Controlling what you do
  • ·        Controlling who you see or talk to
  • ·        Limiting your outside involvement
  • ·        Not letting you work
  • ·        Not letting you receive an education
  • ·        Using jealousy to justify actions against you
  • ·        Destroying your support system

Minimizing, Denying and Blaming
  • ·        Making light of the abuse
  • ·        Saying abusive behavior was not abusive
  • ·        Shifting the responsibility for the behavior to you

www.aardvarc.org/dv/symptoms.shtml

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